Something old,
something new, something borrowed, something blue...
This tradition originated from an
Old English rhyme, “Something Olde, Something New, Something Borrowed,
Something Blue, and a Sixpence in your Shoe.” I find it so amazing that a
simple tradition like this has carried on for so long. As the legend goes, the
items represent continuity {something old}, hopefulness for the marriages
future {something new}, lent happiness {something borrowed}, and lastly cleanliness,
love and fidelity {something blue}.
Here are some simple ways to
incorporate this custom into your special day. For starters, writing a sweet
little note on groom’s tie in blue {yes, men can be involved in this too} can
be something sweet and meaningful. Next example to carry on the tradition is having a picture of your parents
wedding day or rosary of a loved one attached to your bouquet. Another, is by
stitching in something blue to your dress such as your wedding date or little
heart, as shown in the picture. The special thing about this tradition is that you
can adjust it in any way to suit your own personal style.
Photos By: Amanda Nguyen, Sara Burnett, La Vie Photography
Grooms, don't drop your bride...
Carrying the bride over the threshold originated from the
Ancient Romans. The meaning behind it is, to insure the bride was not scared
about leaving their family home, but to insure she was happy to move in with her husband. If she was she was
carried, rather than dragged across the threshold then she was ready to start her new life. Now days, I hope the original
meaning does not stand true ;) So grooms, just like the first time you met your
bride….sweep her off her feet and carry her over the threshold to your home!
Photo By: Hey Pretty Wedding
Love at First Sight...
The tradition
of the bride and groom not seeing each other before the ceremony had a not so romantic beginning. In the past when arranged marriages were much more popular, the first
time the couple would meet was at the altar. As a precautionary, they were not
allowed to see each other before because the parents of the bride did not want
the groom to back out if he was not attracted to her. How romantic...right!?
Luckily
that is not the case anymore! Since arranged marriages are not as common today,
couples now choose to not see each other to make the day more exciting instead.
Having that unforgettable first look of the bride walking down the aisle is
much more special. Recently though the tradition has developed into the bride
and groom having a private first look before the ceremony. This is a perfect
picture opportunity for photographers to catch the special moment between the
couple. Also as an added bonus, it allows more time for group pictures. Waiting
to see each other until the ceremony or doing a first look, is the preference
of the bride and groom. Each option is a special and romantic moment that they
will both remember forever.
Photos By: Abby Jiu Photography
Rain, Rain Go Away...?
If it rains on your wedding day is actually not a bad thing. Surprisingly, rain symbolizes a happy and blessed marriage.
Now, who wouldn’t want that? One meaning for rain is fertility. This
superstition says the couple will have a better chance of having children
because when it rains it means growth. Also
it is cleansing, rain-washes away any sadness or bad experiences that have
happened in the past. It gives the couple a fresh start. Lastly, rain
symbolizes unity because when a knot gets wet it becomes tighter and stronger.
Just as the couple ties the knot they become one that is stronger together. So
brides and grooms don’t fret if rain is in the forecast for your big day
because it is good luck. {And on the plus side, it makes for
great pictures!}
Photo By: Ryan Ray Photography
Calling all Single Ladies & Men
The garter and bouquet toss is a fun ritual that originated
from the medieval times. When the groom would take his bride to their bedroom
he would rip a piece of material off her dress and throw it out the door to
those waiting outside of it. I find it very strange knowing that this started
from people trying to snoop in on your wedding night. Although the tradition
has changed, brides toss their bouquets and grooms still toss the guarders.
For those who catch the items it is believed they will be the next to marry. Who
knows if that is actually true or not? This tradition is another fun way to get
your guest involved in the big celebration!
Photos By: Wedding Photography
xoxo,
Mary
